We don’t talk about it enough — when women bully other women, it’s often dismissed as gossip, jealousy, or “just how women are.” But make no mistake: this isn’t harmless drama. It’s calculated, emotional abuse, and it’s damaging real lives every single day.
In this video, we uncover the often-overlooked reality of female-on-female bullying:
- The subtle weapons used
- The long-term emotional trauma it causes
- Why so many targets stay silent
🎥 Watch the video to learn why it’s time to name it, confront it, and stop normalizing it.
What Female-on-Female Bullying Actually Looks Like
This kind of bullying is rarely loud. It doesn’t always leave bruises. Instead, it hides in:
- Exclusion and social isolation
- Backhanded compliments and subtle digs
- Gossip, whisper campaigns, and character attacks
- Silent sabotage in personal and professional settings
What makes it so dangerous is how easily it’s minimized — even by victims themselves.
“I thought I was just being sensitive.”
“They said I was imagining it.”
“I didn’t want to seem dramatic.”
This kind of gaslighting makes it hard for survivors to even name what’s happening — let alone fight it.
Why It Hurts So Much
When bullying comes from another woman — especially in a space where solidarity is expected — the emotional betrayal can cut even deeper. It affects:
- Self-worth
- Workplace confidence
- Mental health
- Trust in future relationships
Some victims internalize the abuse, leading to anxiety, depression, and in some cases, even suicidal thoughts.
Bullying Doesn’t Have a Gender — And Neither Should Accountability
We often speak out about toxic masculinity and male aggression — and we should. But that doesn’t mean we get to ignore harmful behavior among women.
If we want real equity, we must be willing to say:
- Women can be bullies, too.
- Internalized misogyny is real.
- Silence helps no one.
What You Can Do
- Stop excusing it as “normal” or “just how women are.”
- Pay attention to exclusionary behavior and manipulation.
- Speak up when you see it — even if it’s subtle.
- Support survivors. Believe them. Empower them to speak.
