Why Bullies Criticize and Mock You
When you take risks, set goals, or try something new, you’re holding up a mirror to those who are too afraid to do the same. For a bully, that reflection is uncomfortable, so they tear you down to protect their ego.
Bullies don’t actually want to win. They just want to make sure you lose. It’s their way of dragging you down so they can feel taller. Underneath the mockery and criticism? Pure insecurity.
The Psychology Behind It
Mocking and criticism are forms of emotional bullying that allow the bully to:
- Avoid facing their own fears or inadequacies
- Shift attention away from their insecurities
- Undermine your confidence so you stop moving forward
How to Respond
- Recognize it’s not about you, it’s about their fear
- Set boundaries and limit their access to your progress
- Surround yourself with people who support your growth
Final Thoughts
The next time a bully mocks or criticizes you, remember, they’re not showing strength, they’re showing weakness. Keep going. Their insecurity is not your limitation.
